I was trying to settle this but something happened HELP sorry its so long,?

I think you should try to be friends. He hurt you, and once a cheater, you know. Instead of going back into the relationship, back off a bit, and try being friends first. If there is still romantic tension between you two after a month or two, maybe you should consider, but remember, he could hurt you as bad as he did the first time. Have pride, and don't let a douche bag walk all over you and play with your heart. Good luck :)